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Anima and Animus

Hannah Green

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The concept of the anima and the animus is one of Jung‘s most fascinating and controversial topics. As Jung was creating his map of the psyche/soul he had many profound personal experiences. Jung's theories are grounded in his personal experience and in active imagination. Active imagination which is the process of self reflection through art making, guided meditation, journaling, personal reflection etc.

Through active imagination Jung connected with a part of his psych he identified as the eternal feminine. This eternal feminine actually initially "showed up" as one of his female clients in his mind eye.

Jung struggled his whole life feeling he had to be taken seriously by the scientists of the time and trying to survive in a world of materialism and sexism. In contacting this inner other he was able to delve deeply into the question of whether his model of psychology was science or art. The masculine part of himself answered science and his feminine inner counterpart answered decidedly art. Through dialogue with these parts of himself he was able to reconcile these opposites and come to a deep understanding that of course his psychology and in my opinion all good psychology is both.

Through a rich process of dialoguing with this inner feminine essence Jung was able to include more of himself in his psychological model and in his work with clients.

From his personal experience he posited that we each have an inner other. The concept of anima and animus was seen as highly gendered due to the cultural lens of the time. If we release our own limited gendered beliefs we can see the essence of his teaching as potent and applicable today.

If we we are to experience our self as whole beings we must acknowledge the polarities that exist within us. We have within us both masculine and feminine, scientist and artist, conscious and unconscious. Jung suggested that this inner other actually serves as our guide to an experience of the Self/Wholeness.

2 of Cups Morgan Greer Deck

Murray Stein in his wonderful book Jung’s Map Of The Soul defines the two terms:

ANIMA - the archetypal images eternal feminine in a man’s unconscious that forms a link between ego consciousness and the collective unconsciousness and potentially open the way to the Self.

ANIMUS - the archetypal images of the eternal masculine in a woman’s unconscious the forms a link between ego consciousness and the collective unconscious and potentially open the way to the Self.

Jung described the inner anima and animus as quite distinct beings. These distinct entities within the psyche he called archetypes.

Murray Stein defines archetype as an innate potential pattern of imagination thoughts or behaviors that can be found among human beings in all times and places.

It’s a controversial idea but basically Jung suggested that through the archetypes, culture reflects psyche and not the other way around. I like this as a psychotherapist because it means that if we want things to change we have to do the inner work. It suggests that inner work is also revolutionary. If we do the work within our own psyche to reconcile the opposites and accept and experience our Self as whole beings perhaps we then create a culture that invites others to do this and is more holistic and less fragmented; therefor more inclusive and life affirming to more people.


The anima and animus shed light on the concept of the soulmate which is popular in our culture. Especially during the half first half of life we often long for love and search for a complementary mate to complete us. This reflects our deep inner need to know our own Self fully and engage with our own inner anima or animus.

The Lovers Card Rider Waite:

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We are so often attracted to partners that are well developed where we are less developed. This process of projecting our deep an intuitive longing to know ourselves out onto another is ancient. I think life is a rich and messy process of projecting aspects of our self out and then taking those projections back and metabolizing this process over and over again. I think that romantic love facilitates great inner awakening and wholeness when it can go beyond the infatuation stage. Mature love can be the springboard to experiencing what many Jungians call “alchemical marriage.” Alchemical marriage has to do with the marriage within: the union of opposites and the reconciliation of paradox within us that creates an experience of wholeness and of the Self. This is what Jung called individuation and is generally accepted as the “goal” of psychotherapy.

If we continually project this need to know ourselves and experience our own wholeness out we will continually look for a partner to complete us. At the far end of the spectrum this looks like sex or love addiction. Just like the alcoholic seeks to quench his spiritual thirst with spirits, the love addict seeks to experience wholeness by connecting with the beloved ~ becomes intensely focused on the other and misses the opportunity to connect with the self.

Active imagination, art making, poetry, the tarot and psychotherapy ~ these are ways we can enter into a dialogue with our inner anima or animus. For anyone interested in Jung’s personal experiences and how they informed his work you can read his autobiography Memories Dreams and Reflections or most wonderfully you can look at his Red Book which is a beautiful journey in image through Jung’s inner world.

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From the Red Book

Better yet begin to connect with your own inner anima or animus through active imagination. Robert Johnson’s book Inner Work is a wonderful guide for safely and effectively exploring active imagination.

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"One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious." Carl Jung

Leo and the Lion

Hannah Green

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Happy August and Happy Leo Season.

This month we have the invitation for more playfulness and more shine. What does our ego fear will happen if we take up a bit more space? Can we risk being judged in order to grow and in order to be of service? There is immense power in admitting we are powerless over how other's see us.

Where could you playfully allow yourself to be seen?

To play with this theme I have accepted a challenge by one of my mentors to post on instagram daily during August. If you aren't following me already come on over! I will be posting lots about Jungian psychology, Shadow work, relationships, Tarot and more....

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AUGUST TAROT READING VIDEO

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"One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious." Carl Jung

September's Embracing the Shadow group is full but please still apply here to be first on the list for the next one (date tbd.) Applying also lets me know that you are interested in Shadow work so that you are first to receive special Shadow content and hear about stuff you will probably be excited about....

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What is the Shadow?

Hannah Green

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HAPPY NEW MOON IN CANCER

This is a feeling moon. What feelings are flowing in the undercurrents of life? Where do those feelings point you? Tune in to those currents as you set sail on this new cycle.

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"One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious." Carl Jung

4 WEDNESDAYS IN SEPTEMBER @ 6pm
9/2, 9/9, 9/16, 9/23

This will be a small group to ensure that everyone has ample time for personal attention and group reflection. If you would like to participate please fill out this short application here as soon as possible to grab your spot.

Our last group will be 9/23 in honor of Mabon or the Autumn Equinox when light and dark, day and night are in perfect equilibrium. This time of pause and celebration marks the transition into longer nights and the earth's shadow time of Fall and Winter. If possible we will gather outside in nature for this last group. The group will be small enough to allow for social distancing.

WHAT IS THE SHADOW?


The Shadow is a place in us that holds the balance. It is the Yin to our Yang. It's a place where hidden strengths they waiting and a place where energy pools.

One of Jung's great contributions was to create a map of the psyche and this map is why I call the Shadow "a place." It exists in relation to other constellations in the map similar to the way the planets hold each other in orbit. Specifically, the Shadow polarizes with the Persona or what we commonly refer to as "ego." Strengths, liabilities and characteristics that don't serve the ego's goals of fitting in, getting ahead and pleasing others set up camp in the Shadow. It's a bit like the Burning Man of your psyche, where the wildness goes to play. These Shadow aspects of Self may threaten our fitting in with family or society now or when we were growing up. For a developing child fitting in feels like/ is life or death. Later in life we can risk integrating these parts of Self and it may even be necessary for our mental, emotional and spiritual health. Jung said the first half of life was about developing the ego and any risky material went back into the Shadow. He explained that if we embark on a journey of Self discovery the second part of life is all about excavating the Shadow and bringing these parts into the light.

This process of owning and exploring the Shadow can create balance, wholeness, sovereignty, awakening, better relationships and passionate living. It also helps us avert the dangers of not owning our Shadow namely - anxiety, resentment, feeling stifled, powerless and having troubled relationships. Shadow work helps us own our darkness. When darkness is conscious it nourishes and enlivens, when it is unconscious it can cause harm to Self or others.

Our creativity is the key to unlocking the Shadow. Creativity allows us to court the Unconscious which is where the Shadow resides. We don't go barging in to the unconscious demanding answers - we develop a practice of courting the Unconscious. Imagine arriving on the shores of ancient Avalon, you would be respectful, reverent and probably really excited. Shadow work is similar. Art, imagery, dreamwork, Tarot, Sandtray, metaphor, fairytale and poetry are how we court the Unconscious and are good at coaxing the Shadow into awareness.

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Tarot, Movies and Books

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HAPPY JULY AND FULL MOON ECLIPSE

Sending my very best to you! I am finding ways to take breaks and have time to myself that are doable like taking a staycation, a walk the beach, enjoying a daytime movie. Studies show that limiting time spent on news media and especially social media can reduce stress and I am doing my best to heed this.


I recently looked up the definition of escape which reads: to break free from confinement or control.

I wonder how many of us are facing some urges to escape right now - I know I am. I think this is a very potent place to explore. I am finding out that so much of my difficulty comes from unconscious attempts to escape. Can I instead befriend the part of me that wants to escape? Can I love her? Can I stop waiting for her to change or behave? Slowly and with reminders...yes. I can love her and this means I can grow up. Growing up means living with more honesty, magic, pleasure and peace.

What are some ways you can take a break and have some time for yourself right now?

"One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious." Carl Jung

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JULY TAROT READING

Center: Us right now ~ 2 OF CUPS

Left: The recent past. STRENGTH

Right: The near future. ACE OF SWORDS

Above:The conscious material at play. 4 OF WANDS

Below:The unconscious material at play. 10 OF CUPS

We are facing ourselves as never before. The alchemical marriage is alchemizing. We are integrating all aspects of our Self in order to meet our Selves as whole human beings. Staying home and slowing down has given us the opportunity to get to know ourselves better. It has given us the chance to get to know our loved ones better. Anything that needed to be brought out into the open and dealt with has been given that chance. If some of it has been unpleasant we would do well to remember that pain is often the touchstone of spiritual growth.

The recent past may have been challenging due to these factors and due to the fact that the collective is facing it's collective shadow. This work of making conscious what was unconscious has catalyzed this current state of integration and healing. If we had some fight or flight chemistry that is understandable and tolerating it and being compassionate with it has helped us grow.

We are learning to communicate and grow up. When we learn to comment on our process rather than act it out we become relational. For example, "I notice that I have some fight or flight chemistry going and I need to take a break. I am going to get some fresh air and check back with you in a little bit."

Being compassionate with ourselves like this allows us to drink the nectar of wisdom and compassion and move forward with new purpose. We have tremendous potential. New ways of thinking and new perspectives are here. This aha moment is a gift but we worked and have made ourselves ready to receive it.

This month there is an opportunity to examine our commitments. Through careful discernment and spontaneous inspiration we can release commitments that no longer serve us and deepen commitments to what is lasting, sustainable and reflective of our deepest values.

We may be learning that emotional fulfillment is not what we thought it was. It is not looking good in other peoples eyes or being happy all the time. We may be learning that it is the satisfaction that comes from embracing our humanity and finding gratitude for the whole wild and wonderful ride.

Paradoxically emotional fulfillment comes with the ability to take a step back from emotions and practice healthy detachment. If we can take that step back and observe the whole spectrum of our emotions we are no longer compelled to act destructively due to the seemingly unpleasant ones. From this observer place we can live free of complaining and controlling and make friends with reality instead. This practice gives us energy for the process of growing up and being of service.


Journaling/Dialoguing Prompts:

You can gaze at the card noted while you do some free writing on the following questions…

What difficulties did I face compassionately last month? (Strength)

How am I communicating my needs and my feelings to others? (2 of Cups)
How can I share my truth without resorting to complaining or controlling? (2 of Cups)
What am I inspired by right now? (Ace of Swords)

What commitments am I releasing and what commitments am I my deepening? (4 of Wands)
What helps me take a step back and practice healthy detachment/compassion? (10 of Cups)

Favorite Book

Understanding the Thoth Tarot by Milo DuQette

The Thoth Tarot deck was the first tarot deck ever gifted to me by my dear husband. I am partial to its potent magic and symbology. The artwork of Lady Freida Harris somehow sings the fabric of the universe through color, shape and symbol. The Thoth Tarot deck is the result of collaboration between Lady Frieda Harris and Alastair Crowley. Anyone who has tried to read Alastair Crowley knows his writing can be very esoteric and challenging. DuQuette's book brings to light all the background you need to unlock the many doors of understanding and insight contained in the Thoth deck. His book takes some very deep wisdom and makes it accessible, digestible and readable. The book also contains some history about Alastair Crowley and the circle of British occultists at the turn-of-the-century that I find fascinating.

Psychology in the Movies

Dr Sleep

Dr Sleep is a psychological thriller directed by Mike Flanagan. It is the sequel to The Shining and so has been much anticipated by Stephen King fans and lovers of the horror genre. I enjoyed the directors cut which is streaming on HBO. I love a good psychological thriller and this is my favorite one so far this year. I know scary movies aren't for everyone so sit this out if you are not a fan. Pro tip: I like to watch scary movies in the daytime because not only does it feel deliciously decadent but I can relax and enjoy the film without getting too scared and I have time to digest the material before bed.

I love this film because it is ultimately about recovery from addiction and trauma. I love this film because it is about paying recovery forward. I love this film because it takes some heavy duty topics and weaves them into myth and image. Films that do this well help me cultivate my inner observer: the part of me that can sit with and face some heavy shit.

I am not the only person who really liked this film. Stephen King says "Everything that I ever disliked about the Kubrick version of The Shining is redeemed for me here.” Stephen King is an outspoken critic of the Stanley Kubrick adaptation of his novel. After having seen Dr. Sleep I understand more what was missing from Kubrick's rendition. That film is visually gorgeous and the characters absolutely archetypal. I love Kubrick's The Shining. However, the film does not capture the depth of humanity that is so prevalent in Dr. Sleep. King's insights into addiction, family trauma and recovery come through Flanagan's film. Stephen King is in recovery and I always enjoy his allusions to the 12 step process and to spirituality. 12 step references are notoriously bad in films and it is so refreshing to see them woven so seamlessly into Danny's story and into Dr. Sleep.

The film follows Danny Torrence who has grown up and developed some very unhealthy although effective coping mechanisms. The coping mechanisms keep the trauma at bay but also thwart the gifts (The Shining). Danny learns to compartmentalize his trauma and to dull his sensitivity. Both of these tactics work for a time until Danny finds he cannot run from himself any more. He then finds a spiritual community through synchronous good fortune and he begins to heal.

In recovery terms, Danny learns that his dark past becomes his greatest asset when he is in service of another.

How different people deal with trauma and addiction is a major theme in the film. Rose the Hat has made a religion out of it. Snakebite Andi's unresolved trauma turned her poisonous. Danny's father Jack most infamously lost the battle with addiction.

I find the scariest character in the film to be Mrs. Massey aka the lady in the bathtub. I see her as representing addiction. In the first Shining Jack Nicholson's character is seduced by her beauty and it is only once he is in her embrace does he realize the dark truth. How like addiction this is. In the King novels Mrs. Massey represents the seductive power of evil (addiction). Both Danny and Abra Stone (the amazing Kick-ass heroine of Dr. Sleep) have to learn to live with this part of themselves. They must find peace with addiction. Danny tried running from his problems and this only made his addictions worse. Abra has learned from Danny and faces what she fears head on. Watch the last scene to see what I mean.

Shine on...

The Inner Twin

Hannah Green

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HAPPY NEW MOON

Happy Juneteenth. This is a special weekend, it is the summer solstice and a new moon. I am hoping all of you have some time to rest, rejuvenate and recenter. I honor all the ways you are soul searching, healing and bringing shadows into light. May all your efforts bear fruit!

I am really excited about the intersection of commitment and surrender. How does one practice committed surrender and surrendered commitment? Can we deeply commit without attachment or a death-grip on the outcome? Can we deeply surrender and recognize the limits of our control while still being steadfast in our integrity and values? Each of us must find our own balance and this involves lots of "mistakes" as the pendulum swings from side to side and we slip out of balance... too far in one direction or the other.

The pendulum always settles if we can let go and let it swing. Where surrender and commitment cross on the axis is the transformational place, the magic place. May we each find our balance and our unique intersection of the two....one day at a time.

We explore balance and much much more in this new and still coagulating offering...
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GUIDED IMAGINATION

This guided imagination honors gemini season and is an invitation to dialogue with the inner twin. Think the lovers card in Tarot ~ the inner marriage between our light and dark, our masculine and feminine, our tame and our wild side. Jungian depth therapy creates a container for this inner marriage and often utilizes active imagination as a way to get the internal dialogue going. After all if inner marriage is to occur, we better start with introductions, chatting, likes, dislikes, etc. Think courting....

Our inner others are the complement to our conscious ego and help us to stay balanced. Our inner others are often different that what we show the world. When we become more consciously aware of the balance this creates we become more confident, whole and in integrity.

Once you get relaxed and listen to the guided imagination here are some journaling prompts to help you dialogue with the inner other. Remember with guided imagination you are completely in charge. If you are feeling uneasy or disturbed you can stop any time. Try to hold guided imagination lightly and not take things too seriously, this helps us to be creative and go with the flow.

LISTEN TO THE GUIDED IMAGINATION HERE

Journaling/Dialoguing Prompts:

Asking the Inner Other and answering as the Inner Other:

What do you want me to know about you?

What do I misunderstand about you?

What are you really good at?

How do you want to help me?

What do I need to do to be in balance?

What would delight you?

What makes you powerful?

How can you help me in my relationships?

What is your dearest wish for me?

Favorite Book

How to be an Antiracist by Ibram X. Kendi

As a depth therapist I am focussed on wholeness, in acknowledging the both the conscious and the unconscious, the light and the dark. The business of devaluing the unconscious and valorizing the conscious fuels psychopathology and soul sickness. This same mechanism of devaluing and valorizing fuels racism, sexism and every other systemic pathology. As Kendi points out "denial is the heartbeat of racism." His book is skillfully supporting me to soften my defenses, face my own denial and see where I am caught in blindly devaluing and valorizing. I learned from my Gestalt teachers that "where there is awareness there is choice." This book is is miracle grow for my awareness and is helping me face where I am perpetuating racist ideas and perspectives.

MUSIC

Witches New Moon Mix - Enjoy xo

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Psychology in the Movies

Melancholia is a (melancholy) and beautiful film written and directed by Lars Von Trier. This is dark moon viewing at its best. I just rewatched the film after some years and was deeply impacted again. The psychologically minded viewer will appreciate the heartbreakingly poignant depiction of depression as well as the razor sharp portrayal of codependence and family dysfunction.

However, it is the films imagery and dream like beauty that will really blow you away and take you to a place of deep and emotive contemplation. Viewer discretion advised as this film contains apocalyptic themes and is potentially depressing. If you are looking for an easy uplifting film this is not the one. I do think it is a beautiful and worthwhile film of you are feeling up to it. It is potentially cathartic as you may find that the beauty and truth in the film far surpasses the morbidity.

Von Trier peers into the theme of control and surrender to fate. I find it to be a cathartic film because it allows us to face fears, grapple with them and ultimately surrender in our way along side the two main characters, sisters Justine and Claire. Kirsten Dunst and Charlotte Gainsbourg give relentless performances as two sisters with complementary dysfunction in a rich but irrevocably damaged family. This movie also stars an amazing cast: Charlotte Rampling, John Hurt, Alexander and Stellan Skarsgard to name a few.

As the film builds towards its climax layers of illusion are peeled away and what was previously obscured is revealed. In this way, the film is a rich exploration of the unconscious. The anger and wisdom underneath Justine's depression is revealed. The fear and desperation underneath Claire's codependence is revealed. The cowardice and selfishness underneath Claire's husbands bravado is revealed. The wisdom underneath Leo's youth is revealed.

The imagery in the film is as rich as a Tarot deck. I especially enjoy the opening sequence. The film asks many questions and is one of the most dream like and emotive films I've ever seen. Give it a try sometime if you are feeling moody and want to drink in some visual beauty whilst plumbing the depths.